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Thursday, December 18, 2008

Get up friends! Go for your dreams.

18 Dec 2008

Hello, hello!

Goodness, time is starting to move much more quickly. The other day we were on the subway, and a group of three Americans with skateboards got on. They were kind of roudy (sp? I don't have spell check), and I was kind of embarassed...and it just, in a weird way, reminded me that this is a neat place and a neat time in life. I am starting to love Korea. I am trying to talk to everyone, to talk to people as we travel--which is really weird for people. And here it's especially weird to talk to strangers, and it's weird for a foreigner to speak Korean. But even when I get rejected, I get rejected very politely.

It's not just that, of course...it's how I feel at ease here, and how I'm grateful to be able to focus just on the gospel. And to do that with them. Yesterday we took a bus out to an area outside the city. We were going to be meeting with two member couples. It was a rainy day, and when we got off the bus, there was a man with an umbrella who smiled and bowed--he and his wife came to pick us up because of the weather. We went to the restaurant owned by the second couple, and as the six of us sat around a low table, with a soup boiling in the middle, eating with chopsticks out of the same bowls, and as they laughed and talked with eachother, I just felt at home with them. I had had kind of a rough morning, and being with them brought sunshine to my soul--I don't know how else to describe it.

On Sunday, we ate with another member family--the family of the bishop of one of the wards in the stake we're in (Yong Dong stake). We had asked a couple hours previously if we could just stop by briefly, but when we did, his wife sat us down to eat with them. After the meal, as we kneeled and prayed, I was just overwhelmed by their goodness and love, when I felt I could give so little in return.

Some other stories from the week. It was kind of a musical week. On Saturday we teach a beginning English class, and we're supposed to do gospel time, in English, as the last part of it, which is hard with beginning learners. We decided to sing the chorus of "Follow the Prophet," since it has a grand total of three different lines, one of which you sing six times.

We had some time before to prepare, so I found a children's song book and practiced playing it on the piano. During the class, I wasn't sure if I would actually be able to play while people were singing--whenever I've tried doing so before, my heart beats so fast and my hands shake so badly that I can't play what I've practiced. But it was just fine. I played it without problems, and we went through it several times. Thinking about that, about being able to do something I couldn't do before, was another reminder of how...I often feel I am getting so much help. I can speak to people without getting nervous, without worring about the language, things that I didn't do before. And I am just grateful for it.

And the language is coming. I can usually follow the small talk that preceeds our lessons, and I am starting to join in with it and with the lessons. A little. And people are so, so patient. No one learns Korean, and they know it's hard. They are so kind about it (though sometimes I solicit a giggle or two).

On Sunday, there was a baptisimal service--someone the elders in Song Pa ward had taught (there are elders in every ward, then sisters divided between stakes). I was excited for my first baptisimal service in Korea. Sister Romney and I got recruited to be in an impromptu choir, and we rehearsed "The Spirit of God" as we waited for the meeting to get going. It opened, and after some remarks, people went upstairs to the font for the actual baptism...but we stayed down and practiced a few more times. Sad. But worth it.

The plan was to have a piano solo on the third verse. Our little choir was made up of all sisters, though there was one brother who's a ward missionary who kind of sang with us as we rehearsed. He obviously enjoyed singing.

Well, people came back in after the baptism, and there were some testimonies, and then we got up to sing. We got to the third verse--I had been warned a few times about the piano solo--and all of a sudden, the ward missionary brother who had kind of sung with us stood up, and, following the music and his heart, began an impromptu solo and joined us at the front of the meeting. The rest of us nearly burst out laughing, but instead joined him on the chorus.

There was some more music last night--Sister Romney and I played hymns on the piano together--me the left hand, her the right--as we waited for an investigator to have her baptisimal interview. Her name means "Morning Star." She had a baptisimal date before I got here, but since then we've met with her a few times, reviewed some things, talked about work and school.... She is nervous to be baptized, but she is ready. And I am just grateful to share in some small part of that with her.

I love you all!

--Carrie

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Segment of Happy Life

11 Dec 2008

We were on the bus the other day, and I saw a cafe called "Segment of Happy Life." I enjoyed that. There's lots of English and Englishy and Konglishy things around here. And sometimes there're rather poetic.

A good week. We laughed, we cried, we went home happy. This area apparently has a weather pattern of about 4 warm days followed by about 3 cold days. Well, the cold days hit last week. There are four in our appartment, and we all sleep on the floor of the living room on "yos" (foam pads that you fold up and put away during the day). Houses are heated with a hot water system--there are pipes under the floor, and they are heated with the water. All together, it is quite pleasant at night.

Except this week, when it really got cold, our hot water (and therefore heat) went out. We all woke up and kind of just laid in bed, cold, not wanting to move. After some phone calls, we packed some things and got ready at the mission home. The office elders fussed with our apartment during the day--they unthawed the pipes (though it's not quite clear if that they were frozen and that was the problem) and brought a big heater, which we turned on the next night. But it used too much electricity, so the next morning we had neither heat nor hot water nor electricity. We spent the next night at the mission home. Some more fussing, and we're okay again...it was an adventure, to be sure.

Elders here cover wards, but the sisters cover stakes. So Sister Romney and I were at a new ward last Sunday, and it was delightful. We had already met with some of the people in the ward, and it was wonderful to see familiar faces. It was fast Sunday, so sacrament meeting was testimony meeting. Last Sunday, at the other ward, they had me get up and share my testimony and introduce myself. This Sunday, as the sacrament meeting started, I heard my name. I wasn't sitting with my companion, and I had no idea what they were saying, but just in case they were saying I was going to get up and introduce myself, I got up and was the first testimony of the meeting. I was afraid to ask my companion after what they really said.

This week we set a baptism date with someone we started meeting with after I got here! She's the one who wants to be a flight attendant, and every time we meet with her, she just agrees with things and is happy about what we teach. When we asked her about being baptized, it was the same way. And during the lesson, I just kept thinking, if this is the only thing that happens on my mission, it's worth it. Entirely worth it.

Ahh! Out of time!!

Lots of love,

Carrie

Thursday, December 4, 2008

First Week. Done.

04 Dec 2008

Wow, it was quite the week. At least I don't have to do the first ever week in Korea again! Few! Maybe my first or second full day, we were transfering between buses--walking between stops--and I was thinking about how I needed to be talking to people--but I can't talk to people--and why didn't they just send me to Argentina where I could actually communicate?--Argentina, wait, why not to Idaho, for heavens sakes? I came on a mission thinking I had down the lesson of trusting God. I think I'm getting a little more practice, though. Which is good.

The mission president's wife and president (Sister and President Burton) hosted a zone for Thanksgiving, so we got to go there for turkey, green beans, cranberry sauce.... It was lovely. We were just missing the kim chi. A meal without kim chi. Or rice. (Hardly complete!)

That night, Sister Burton was going to take me to the doctor when she heard me still coughing. But after a teaching appointment, she and President Burton had talked it over and gave me some cough drops, pm cold tabs, a humidifier, got me a blessing, and drove us home. And I'm doing great--all fixed up:) I'm being taken good care of.

It has been a big adjustment to see how investigators actually learn and progress (after practicing teaching in the MTC), but it has been wonderful to start meeting with real people! And we actually are meeting with and teaching people--I really didn't know what to expect in that regard, either.

The missions in Korea do an English program, where we tutor English for 30 minutes, then teach the gospel lessons for 30 minutes. English is in high demand here--thinking about it, I think that is just part of how fast their country changes, which in turn seems part of how hard, hard, hard they work (another manifestation of that--rush hour is a couple hours later than in the US). I was kind of doubtful about the 30/30 program, but we're upfront about how it works, and there really are people who are receptive to the gospel lessons who first learn about the Church because of the English program.

We only talk to women in contacting, and we only meet with women. And we are meeting with some really neat people. One wants to be a flight attendant for Korean Air ("flight attendants are like rock stars here," one of the other sisters said once), so she needs to know English (and Japanese or Chinese). She seems receptive to what we teach about the gospel, too, and prayed the first time we asked her to, even though she hadn't ever before. That was a really neat experience--to hear somebody's first prayer. We meet at the church, and last time she brought us dak bogoi--big, thinck rice noodles in spicy sauce that we ate by stabbing them with wooden skewers.

Then there's a high school home ec teacher who files her nails into points. Her husband is an author, she's Catholic, and she has traveled all over the world. She has a month long break starting on December 25, and we set a time when she could teach us to make kim chi stew. I really love talking to her. I love being around her. I love learning from her. And she is learning from the Spirit, little by little.

We were out tracting the other day (in Korean, tracting is 가가호호--ka ka ho ho. I love that word.) and a woman saw us and invited us in. We sat on the floor around the table, and Sister Romney talked about the Book of Mormon. And she was just happy, agreed with what we said. She took the book and liked what we read from it, but wasn't really interested in meeting again. That seems to happen often, which has really surprised me. People like the Book of Mormon, even accept it; like how it teaches of Christ and supports the Bible. But they don't quite see the implications of accepting it. That's how it seems to be for the high school teacher.

There's a high school student who is friends with the stake president's daughter. She's agnostic, but last night, she said she is starting to believe there is a God. She said she feels strengthened when she meets with us. She reads and prays, and when we meet and I try to talk, I just hope and pray she will know this can make her happy. There's a lot of that, right here at the beginning when I really can't speak to people. Hoping and praying that they will understand. I guess there always should be, though.

I send lots of love!

--Carrie